People try various ways to get back with your ex. Will
writing letters help you to get your ex back?
This is a question that needs to be looked in with some depth. Writing
letters has been a traditional mode of communication for lovers. Now that
writing letters is not so common a practice as it was earlier, people use other
kinds of text-based correspondence like text messages, e-mails etc. in keeping
with the present state of technology in the area of communication.
Many people find text based communication a very convenient
way of communication when trying to get an ex-lover to fall in love with them
again. There can be some advantages with this method and some disadvantages as
well. On the positive side, writing letters will allow you to express feelings
that you might not otherwise be able to express. You can be more direct, more detailed and
more specific than you can in oral communication which will be severely
inhibited by personal factors. That beings us to the negative aspects of
writing letters.
Letters are quite
impersonal. A letter can never be a
substitute for a direct talk which will be spontaneous and effusive. Whether you
want to break up with your ex or get
back with your ex, conveying your feelings orally will be the most effective
way. But many people just lack the courage for doing this and resort to
texting. If you want to get your ex
back, writing a letter is not the best way to achieve your objective. Moreover,
getting a letter or text message from you will make your ex feel being distant
from you. Oral communication, on the other hand will bring you closer. When you
are face to face, sometimes, some physical act like an affectionate hug or a
passionate kiss can bring about instant change in the relationship.
Does it mean that
writing letters should never be resorted to? No. The letter can serve as a good
starting point in improving your relationship. But you should always follow it
up with a personal contact which will help you get your ex back.
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