Should You Not Win Back A Love You Will Cherish A Lifetime?

Of all those who have suffered a break up, only some want to win back a love. I am sure you are one of this tribe. Why do you want to do this? If you say you cherish your being together with your life and crave for that experience to continue for a life time, then you deserve to get your ex back. If you have such intense feelings towards the times you were in the company of your ex, your ex is also likely to have similar feelings. After all love in infectious and a deep love of one person is bound to find an appropriate response. Therefore, your ex may also be thinking of ways to win back a love that they will cherish for a lifetime.

Wondering ‘what if..’ or ‘if only…’ is not going to take you anywhere near getting your ex back. You need to take action. Let me quickly spell out an action plan for you.

1. If you know where your ex is now, it is fine. Otherwise find them.
2.  Find out their status. What are they up to/ Are thy dating someone else? It will be possible to find out their feelings about you through some common contacts.
3. The next step to win back a love you will cherish a life time is to establish contact with them. Calling them over phone may be premature. Sending a text message may be intrusive. The best way is the time old practice of writing a letter. Pour out your feelings in the letter.
4. You may get a quick response making it easy to get your ex back. But if you don’t, do not give up. Wait. If their feelings of anger and resentment are deep, it will take some time for them to be tempered. If they are in another relationship, then either they would never get back to you or they would after sometime.
5. If your ex responds, then your next step in your efforts to win back a love will depend on how they respond. If they send you a letter, then continue with the same mode of communication till the time is ripe for making a phone call. If they text you or call you over phone, then the process of getting back with your ex will be speeded up.

It may seem as if you are building a new relationship. But with patience and perseverance, you will succeed in your attempts to win back a love that you will cherish for a lifetime.